Stir House

Stir House
Stir up that gift in You by showing love.

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Shatterd Dreams :Episode2

‘A good life is very hard to build; but very easily to destroy’ Cyprian Henry
Introduction………………..

Relax; just take it easy I believe you have read the preceding story that led to this one. If you have not, stop reading any further, endeavor to read the main story itself. If you have I believe you are anxious to see the end of the story. Yeah every story that has a beginning must certainly have an end. This is a story of a young lady with academic prowess. This is a story of a human’s life. It had a fine beginning. Yes! But we did not know how it ended. Without mincing words, let’s see the end of Shattered dreams.
The principal  coughed, cleared her throat and reiterated what the Vice principal said ‘Listen up my children, I have a very bad news’ as she said that, I looked at Anita and she whispered silently into my ears ‘It is about Victoria’ she said. I never knew when I screamed ‘What? Bad news, Victoria? Then the Principal continued. ‘I believe we all know Victoria Okafor? And the whole assembly responded with a loud voice ‘YESSSSSSSSSSS!’ Then she kept quite for seconds, bowed her head and raised it up again as if the words are too heavy for her to say. She began again ‘Victoria is a very assiduous student, I am sure you know her well, she served as the assistant health prefect, she led S.S.S3A to the debate we partook in last term, she is fair and a great talker, she is very gifted and intelligent in fact she even told me she was aspiring to study Law in the University of Nigerian, Nsukka. For about a month, Victoria was reported constantly absent from school which we decided to see to the matter as an Institution. A few teachers began the search some weeks ago and just this afternoon, Mrs. Dorothy Olatunji gave me a heart aching message at 12:58pm. It is hard to the hearing but because of her impacted in this School, I decided to announce it to the entire assembly. Victoria Okafor passed away two days ago’ immediately she said she bursted into tears and the long calmed crowd turned into a pandemonium.

I stood there, dumbfounded my heartbeat increased and I began to sweat copiously. The crowd were anxious ‘what killed her’ some asked ‘What happened’ ‘How, where? The Principal continued ‘Her parents discovered she was pregnant as she began to develop some strange symptoms which made them began to suspect her. After much questioning she confessed she was pregnant for Charles a fellow student in this same school. She died in the attempt to abort the fetus now she has been buried and Charles, the doctor as well as Charles’ relatives are in serious trouble. This has never happened in the history of this School. Please I pleaded on your behalf hold yourselves, be careful, cut away from any sexual relationships you engaged in. Think about you future, and finally do not let your dreams shatter’ as soon as she said this she left the gathering and retired into her office. I tell you only God knew how bad I felt that afternoon. We could no longer have the class we intended and some minutes later, the bell rang for all to go home. Through out the week and the rest of our stay in school until we took our final examination, the sudden death of Victoria never left our memory.
This was why I decided to write this little note, though I am not a pro writer but at least the message was clear. Since that event I have held on to the insight God gave me as a warning that says ‘Dreams are like eggs, they have to be protected’. One my bed as I sleep I began to ask myself ‘Was that how Victoria and the big dream she had in the future was shattered and terminated’. As young people we will always have challenges, temptations that would want to thwart God’s plan for our lives. The Devil they say is ‘our adversary looking for whom to destroy’. He is always on the watch to see who will fall to his tricks. He will come through relationships, movies, sex, disinterest in study, and he would want us to go far from God. But my mother has always told me the weapon to destroy him and his cohorts. It is via prayers and living a righteous life. When we live righteous lives the Devil will of course try but never get us. When we live a good life we are surrendering ourselves and dreams on to the foot of Jesus. As young people we should be careful of the choices we make everyday because they will determine our life in the future. A little mistake can ruin your life. He said through Solomon in the book of proverbs ‘Commit your plans [dreams] unto me and I direct you path. Always remember your dreams, future, your goals, protect them as Arthur protected Camelot and your dreams will not shatter.     

YOUTHFUL AND USEFUL

‘Enjoy your youth, do all that your heart desires, eat all that you want,
But remember God will judge all our actions’- TEV

Benjamin Carson receives an award for his academic achievements
Growing up as a young person, if the truth be told, I have committed too many atrocities. I have indulged myself in many ungodly actions for which I am still unhappy about. Yes God has forgiven me but the scars left in my heart still hurts. This is one the basic reason I am very bent at impacting young people in my own little way. Nineteen years is gone and cannot be retrieved of rewind. It has gone and gone forever. If I were to give an account for all want I spent all those years my account book would be blank. If they were to pay each person one kobo for every bad he did, believe me I would be the richest on earth. That is why I am not ashamed to tell anyone some of the mistakes I did in the past with my life so they could learn and so I could not be able to go back to them. Like Merlin said ‘Our lives are meant to be a book’ and like Ben Carson noted ‘We should have no skeletons in our closet’


God surely loves me that was why he did not allow me to perish while I was in darkness and ignorance. He still gave me a second chance to retrace my steps. Like He rightly noted He ‘Stands at the door of our heart knocking to see if we would open that he may come in and eat with us’ I failed Him many times yet he never cast me out totally. As a youth full with strength, verve and elixir, I have come to believe that I am not just meant to be useful but also meant to be useful. I am not created to destroy but to build. I am not made to live but to impact. Like Jesus said through the Psalmist King David ‘We are fearfully and wonderfully made’. To be fearful made infers that we were created for some special use and assignment. I am created to execute a mandate. And I believe by the special grace of God I will be useful in God’s hands and in this world.

Definitely, as young people we desire freedom, to live stress- free lives. To enjoy everything, and to have it all. But pause here and read that quote on top of this paper. True and impact ful living is all about our choices and sacrifices. Like they said ‘we cannot eat our cake and have it’ we are created to be youthful and useful in the hands of God. When I say useful in the hands of God I am not saying you must be a Prayer Warrior in your church, or pastor, or a prophet or prophetess. All I am saying is that God must be using you to touch and changing people’s lives. Like I wrote in my little article titled ‘Man of Value’. I noted that we are not truly living until we are of value to our home, community and our world. It is a sad thing that young people have sold their usefulness and values to the Devil. He is now using them to fulfill his own mission here on earth. For how long shall we continue to live ignorantly? For how long shall be live in darkness. Jesus said ‘Ye are the light of the world... a city on the hill that cannot be hid, Let you so shine amongst men that they may your good works and glorify your father which is in heaven’ Many young people can sing but they had decided to use that ability to lure people into sin. Many can dance but you only find them in night clubs and hotels, many can talk, but they have made up their mind to gossip, many young people can persuade people but they use it to persuade others into doing ungodly things, many can write but you only see them write love letter and post fetish comment on their face book walls, many ladies are beautiful but they use that as an instrument to seduce men.

Like someone once said ‘Youthfulness is only a journey, a phase that we pass through to fulfill our assignments here on earth’ what he is trying to say is that we will not remain young for ever. To be youthful is a medium, a chance for us to deliver our mandate her on earth we shall later go to our creator to give account. Solomon had all he wanted, he had women, gold and silver, wealth and wisdom, and he still said all was like ‘chasing the wind ‘Vanity upon vanity’. He gave an antidote to vanity he said ‘Remember now thy creator in the days of your youth’ and it is only when we remember God in our youthful age can he make us useful in life. So all those things you are chasing after, the money, the girls, the land, the fame are all of no use. It is our positive influence that makes us useful in life. You can be a Doctor and still be useful, a lawyer, an Engineer, a teacher you name it. What matters most is that you depart from evil and live exemplary lives, lives that please God. Many youths out there are perishing, they are dying of ignorance.
Always remember, we are created to be useful so that was why God decided to make us youths, strong and agile in other we could have enough time to pursue and deliver the details of our assignment here on earth. Wake up, even if you have fallen many times, dust up yourself and move on. God is always there to en-grace us. Take charge and deliver your destiny                     

Monday, August 1, 2011

Michelle Obama commends Nigerian Entrepreneur/Advocate Toyosi Akerele

Michelle Obama commends Nigerian Entrepreneur/Advocate Toyosi Akerele & South African Citizen Journalist Annah Tseko – Videos & Photos

Posted on Friday, June 24th, 2011 at 3:56 PM By BellaNaija.com
United States of America First Lady Michelle Obama is currently completing her first major solo tour without her husband – US President Barack Obama.
Michelle Obama is visiting various cities in Southern Africa. So far she has met with South African icons Nelson Mandela and Archbishop Desmond Tutu. A major stop on her tour was in Soweto where she met with young female leaders from all around the continent. Among these women were Nigerian entrepreneur and advocate, Toyosi Akerele (RISE Networks/RISE Prints) and South African citizen journalist Annah Tseko.
Congrats to Toyosi and Annah. Watch the videos below.
You can follow Michelle Obama’s Southern African Tour via www.whitehouse.gov/YoungAfrica

Watch Michelle Obama’s inspiring speech at the Young African Women Leaders Forum at the Regina Mundi Church in Soweto, Johannesburg



Michelle Obama in Southern Africa – Photos
US First Lady Michelle Obama (2-R), her daughters, Malia (L) and Sasha (2-L) as they pose for photographs with former President Nelson Mandela (R) at his home in Houghton, Johannesburg
Michelle Obama with Archbishop Desmond Tutu
Michelle Obama gardens at Vhuthilo Community Centre in Soweto township
Michelle Obama gives an address to the Young African Women Leaders Forum at Regina Mundi church in Soweto township, Johannesburg
Photo Credit: U.S. Embassy Maseru | Daily Mail


for more www.bellanaija.com

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

BE YOURSELF!

Man know thyself-Aristotle

In life, we should decide to be nothing than ourselves. We should learn to appreciate the way we are created. We should behave, act and do in accordance to our inherent" makeup". No wonder the great philosopher, Aristotle once said "Man know thyself" He understands the power of self. He understands that everyone is created in a unique fashion. But in our society today, the reverse is just the case. People have changed just as the world changed drastically. They now emulate the entire life styles of other people even to an extent of coping the way they dress, talk and make their hairs. They have lost the unique power inside of them and have sort for other ways to live better.

Few days ago, I went to a barber's shop to have my hair cut. As I sat down, my eyeballs fell on a large mirror hanged on the wall just in front of me. I looked intently at my reflection, the color of my skin, the shape of my eyeballs, and I smiled and said silently in my heart "I am great, I appreciate the way I am created" Those words sank deep inside of me. It raised my self worth. I develop an usual likeness for my self. That incidence spurred me to writing this article. As the barber grabbed the clippers, he said to me "Why not try this haircut style" as he pointed his fingers to a paper that hung on the wall. I refuted his suggestion and replied "Please kindly give me my usual haircut style" After having my haircut, I realized that, everyone was created differently and that we should decide to be ourselves, maintaining our dormant features and characteristics.

 God created us for a specific purpose and consequently put in us special qualities and features to help use accomplish that purpose. He knew everything about you ever before your parents thought of bringing you to this planet earth. He programmed everything  about you and installed them inside you in form of you looks, physique, characters, speech, height and others. The bible says in Genesis1:27 "So God looked at everything he had made, and he was very pleased"  So the way you are is never an accident. So why will you conform to the standard of this world neglecting the "goldmine" within you. Many a youth are living a lie. How they behave, the clothes they wear, how they walk are just a replica of a particular person.Why? The answers are left for us to answer. The bottom line of this article is Be Yourself!

John Mason will say "You are born original, don't die a copy" No wonder 9ice said in his popular hit track "photocopy, ko easy"(photocopy is not easy) . Please mind you, I am not saying you should not inculcate the good qualities and habits of people like: perseverance, courage, Diligence and Humility. All am inferring is that, you should always be yourself!

In an interview, I watched on TV on the life of the female actress, Omotola Ekehinde, She was asked if she had role models. Her replied left me dumbfounded. She said "I learn from professionals, but the only rolemodel I have is myself" She gave an insightful answer because she understood the power of appreciating and being oneself.

Decide today, to be nobody order than yourself!
Thanks,
Cyprian Udebuike.

IS THERE NO BALM IN NIGERIA?

Is there no medicine in Gilead-Jer.8:22

Nigeria, the giant of Africa, like she is fondly called may be likened to Gilead. How ?, you may ask. The word Gilead means: A region east of Jordan, famous for plants that were used for medicinal purposes. Jeremaih felt a burden in his heart for the fate and future of the people he had been called to lead. He saw the problems facing the people of Isrealities that he was prompted to ask "Is there no medicine in Gilead?"


Many of us have felt the pains of bad Leadership, dilapidated infrastrustures, pot holes that posed itself has dead traps waiting to take the lives of our citizens, ill treatement offerred to patients at hospitals, and many. I believe you know them more than I do? What about the epileliptic power supply that had chased company and industries out of their fatherland? In fact I wrote this article with a candle light. What about the economic crunch? I once read from a magazine that about 2 million children or thereabout go to bed daily without food! It really dishearting,in spite of the fact that we are sitting on a goldmine.

Nigerian is acclaimed to be the giant of Africa, yes I agree but who will bridge this roomy gap between the "haves" and haves-not". How many of this so called rich men will stoop low to raise hands that in need. Ha I am in pain right now! Nigerian claims to be one of the blessed African countries, yet people are still suffering. People are still dying of hunger and from lack of care and frustration. In the words of late M.K.O Abiola, he said "To be rich is to reach others" I think I agree  vehemently to that statement. I will say this again, Nigerian is endowed with plethora mineral resources but we have not done anything meaningful with it to help save the lives of her citizens.

Nigeria is beset with pervasive problems in spite of her free gifts of nature. Greed have succeded in controlling the people on "'top". The have forgetten the people  "below" so soon. Why? I felt this same feelings Jeremaih felt, and I have no other option than to scream in my prayers "Is there no medicine in Nigeria?"
"I wish my head were a well of water, and my eyes a fountain of tears, so that I could cry day and night for my people who have been killed-Jer9:1
-Where do the soulutions lie?
-What are our leaders doing?
-Let's stand up for waht is right!
-Let start and keep praying for our country!
-Let manage our resources!
Let always remember the poor!
"Despite the challenges today, despite the destructions, I have a dream for our country let hear this
The sounds of violence will be heard nomore, destructions will not shatter your(our) country again. I will protect and defend you like a wall; you will praise me bcus I have saved you" Says the Lord.
                                                      


Friday, July 1, 2011

He Died for You and Me!

Winning Always

Dapo Daniel Sadiku
Israel – a Lush Vine
God has an act of choice based on love. He chose the people of Israel accordingly: they became his chosen ones under the Old Covenant. This selection did not lie in any special size, nature, or attraction. They were been chosen because of God’s love for them and His unconditional covenant with Abraham (Deuteronomy 7:7-8).
The history of Israel commences with God’s covenant with Abraham, “I will make you a great nation” (Genesis12:2).The name Israel literally means a prevailing prince with God. It comes from the new name God gave Abraham’s grandson Jacob; after Jacob withstood a spiritual contend at Jabbok. It is at this point that the descendents of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob are often referred to as the children of Israel
They were also known by variety of names (epithet) coined by God almighty, to show their relationship with Him.  One of such names is “the vine or the vineyard of God.”
“You have brought a vine out of Egypt; you have cast out the nations, and planted it.” (Psalm 80:8)
“For the vineyard of the LORD of hosts is the house of Israel, and the men of Judah his pleasant plant:” (Isaiah 5:7)
The ‘Real’ Israel of God
The children of Israel were the vine of God as a shadow, a dim preview of good things to come.
Of course, some would ask, ‘’who is an Israelite’’, ‘’who is a Jew?’’ The general dictionary meaning says a Jew is a member of the tribe of Judah, an Israelite or one whose religion is Judaism. In the Old Testament, the term “Jew” initially meant member of the tribe of Judah and Benjamin, who together comprise the southern kingdom of Judah. After a while, the term Jews and Israelite become fused.
In the New Testament, the gospel reveals the truth to us: It says regardless of nationality, race, colour or sex, a Jew or Israelite is a believer in the Lord God of Israel and His only begotten son, Jesus Christ. That is, the church is the spiritual Israel of God (Galatians 6:15-16)
‘For he is not a Jew who is one outwardly, nor is circumcision that which is outward in the flesh; but he is a Jew who is one inwardly; and circumcision is that of the heart, in the Spirit, not in the letter; whose praise is not from men but from God.’ (Romans 2:28-29)
God’s Immutable Plan
God brought the children of Israel out of Egypt, and did plant them in their own land, that they might bring forth fruits for the nations. So that in them, all the world could be blessed. They however fell short of this plan; they regarded their privileges and blessings as being only for themselves, and turned away from their God to idols. Thus, the saying, ‘Israel is an empty vine, he brings forth fruit unto himself :’( Hosea10: 1)
The most dramatic passage about the lacking of the house of Israel is what is called the ‘Beautiful Song of the Vineyard’: “Now let me sing to my Well-beloved A song of my Beloved regarding His vineyard: My Well-beloved has a vineyard On a very fruitful hill. He dug it up and cleared out its stones, And planted it with the choicest vine. He built a tower in its midst, and made a winepress in it; so He expected it to bring forth good grapes, But it brought forth wild grapes.’’(Isaiah 5:1-2)
Afterwards, God prophesized about a way out – His salvation plan to them:  ‘Behold, the days are coming, says the LORD, when I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel and with the house of Judah’(Jeremiah31:31). However, this scripture about God’s plan:  And now, please let Me tell you what I will do to My vineyard: I will take away its hedge, and it shall be burned; And break down its wall, and it shall be trampled down. (Isaiah 5:5), will have to come to pass concurrently. So what happened? God cuts away, just as he said.
Indeed, when you read Rom 11:20a, Paul said, well; because of unbelief, they were broken off. They could not walk in the faith of God. However, with God’s plan of salvation been endorsed, all would definitely work out. So how did God do these things? I will show it to you now.
A Shoot from David’s Line
“A shoot will come up from the stump of Jesse, from his root a branch will bear fruit.” (Isaiah 11:1) NLT
A stump is the base of a tree left after the rest part has been cut down, while a shoot is a new growth from (a part of) a plant. Israel (the vine) was cut down from the entire plant; as a result, a stump was remaining. Then, out of that stump grew a shoot. This shoot speaks of Jesus.
Jesus got His body (physical) from this process, while His life came directly from God. For when you read Matthew. 1:18, it says, ‘Now the birth of Jesus Christ was as follows: After His mother Mary was betrothed to Joseph, before they came together, she was found with child of the Holy Spirit.’ So His life is divine.
“ concerning His Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who was born of the seed of David according to the flesh, and declared to be the Son of God with power according to the Spirit of holiness, by the resurrection from the dead. (Romans 1:3-4)
So why did he share in the physical nature? He did because if He had to die for us, as he did, then he had to be a partaker of Flesh and blood. (Hebrews 2:14).
A New Order
It is a new way: Jesus died and rose, not for the Jews (the people of Israel) only, but for the whole world. The word “Gentile or Greek” comes to place here. This is being used to describe or refer to a person, which is no Jewish. Apostle Paul said, “I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, for it is the power of God to salvation for everyone who believes, for the Jew first and also for the Greek.”(Romans1:16).
The gospel of Christ is the message of God’s love extended to the whole world. God loves people, and the Bible reveals it: ‘For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.’ (John 3:16) (RSV).He loved everyone in the world, and thereby he gave a ransom for their lives. Anyone who believes the gospel is saved; possessing the life of God. This is an all-inclusive plan.
‘As indeed he says in Hosea, “Those who were not mypeopleI will call ‘my people,’ and her who was not beloved I will call ‘my beloved.’ (Romans 8:25) RSV
The non-Jews came-in by been grafted into the plant. To “graft in” is to cut from one plant and bound inside a cut in another, so that it grows there. As  we read in Romans 11:17, “And if some of the branches be broken off and thou, being a wild olive tree was grafted in among them, and with them partake of the root and fatness of the olive tree;”
The Power of Salvation
For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ…it is the power of God unto salvation.” (Romans 1:16)
‘Salvation’ is the translation of the Greek word ‘Soteria”. It is an all-inclusive word of the gospel of Christ. Thus, more than salvation it means victory, health, power, joy, peace, and prosperity. It is a total life- the total package of all the goodies of life. As John, 10:10 puts it: Jesus said, “I have come that they might have life and have it to the full”. A life to the full means a super abundant, much more abundant life. This is the life He has given us: Jesus said I want to lay my life down so that you will have my life.

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Meetings: Why No One Comes

Meetings: Why No One Comes

why no one comes to youth group meetings
I'm working with the Director of Children's Ministry to put together a training event for our ministers.  As much as we would love to bring all of our ministers to all the great conferences out there we can't...it's too expensive.  So, instead of bringing them to the conference we are bringing the conference to them.  Basically, we'll gather them on a Saturday morning and have them view a video message from Catalyst, I'll give them a brief follow up message, we'll have community building activities and then send them on their way.  So I sent out the evite to all the ministers, and I got this response from one of the ministers:
"I'm just a crowd minister and I'm not sure I see the purpose of me being there.  Besides 4 hours is a long time to meet."
I was taken aback and immediately my defense mechanism chimed in and I wanted to send an email asking them, "How could they not see the purpose of this gathering?"  But, then I thought about it and considered that maybe we've created a culture where meetings are excessive and boring.  It makes sense and I get the minister's reluctance because we are asking her to give more of her time (especially on a Saturday morning) and if the meeting is going purposeless then why should she go?  An attitude in your organization will build if you have meetings and trainings that:
  • Never End: Is there a perfect length? Depends on why you are meeting. A training meeting, probably can go longer than an hour depending on the content. A prep meeting probably should be brief (15-20mins). All you have to do is determine how long the meeting is going to be and post a start and an end time.  Most times people just want to know how long they are going to have to endure your meeting if it:
  • Never Engage: I hate going to meetings where you just meet for meeting sake.  Again you need an agenda, but you also need a vision.  You need to ask yourself, "What do I want people knowing when they are leaving this meeting?" or "How will my volunteers be better off after we are through this agenda?"  If all you are doing is meeting to go over something that could be communicated in an email, you've wasted their time.   
You want to have meetings and trainings that:
  • Fuel - Meaning refresh your team.  A year of ministry is a long time, find some way to replenish their souls and purpose for serving.
  • Challenge - Make them solve a problem, address an issue or change the way the view ministry.
  • Teach - Volunteers don't go to school for ministry (neither do some of us), if you want them to take ownership, teach them a skill that will enhance their ministry.
I do my best to show that I value my volunteer's time, but I also know that I'm not the best meeting/training coordinator.  So how do you make sure that your meetings fuel, challenge and teach? Please comment.